You can define the map $$\overline{\text{Alt}}:\otimes^kV\otimes^lV^*\to\text{Alt}(\otimes^kV\otimes^lV^*),$$ called the alternating map, to create an alternating $(k,l)$-tensor out of a general $(k,l)$-tensor. The alternating map is defined as
$$
\overline{\text{Alt}}(\tilde T)\equiv \frac{1}{k!l!}\sum_{\substack{\sigma\in S_k\\\lambda\in S_l}}\text{sgn}(\sigma)\text{sgn}(\lambda){}_{\{\sigma,\lambda\}}\tilde T\hspace{0.1cm},
$$
where the quantity ${}_{\{\sigma,\lambda\}}\tilde T$ is defined by:
$${}_{\{\sigma,\lambda\}}\tilde T(\omega_1,...,\omega_k,v_1,...,v_l)\equiv \tilde T(\omega_{\sigma(1)},...,\omega_{\sigma(k)},v_{\lambda(1)},...,v_{\lambda(l)}).$$
Then, using the alternating property of $\overline{\text{Alt}}(\bar T)$ we have that
\begin{align}
\hspace{-0.15cm}\overline{\text{Alt}}(\tilde T)(\omega_1,...,\omega_k,v_1,...,v_l)&=\frac{1}{k!l!}\sum_{\substack{\sigma\in S_k\\\lambda\in S_l}}\text{sgn}(\sigma)\text{sgn}(\lambda)\tilde T(\omega_{\sigma(1)},...,\omega_{\sigma(k)},v_{\lambda(1)},...,v_{\lambda(l)})\nonumber\\
&=\sum_{\substack{a_1,...,a_k=1 \\ b_1,...,b_l=1}}^n\frac{\omega_{a_1}...\omega_{a_k}v^{b_1}...v^{b_l}}{k!l!}\sum_{\substack{\sigma\in S_k\\\lambda\in S_l}}\text{sgn}(\sigma)\text{sgn}(\lambda)\nonumber\\
&\qquad\qquad\qquad\qquad\qquad\tilde T(e^{a_{\sigma(1)}},...,e^{a_{\sigma(k)}},e_{b_{\lambda(1)}},...,e_{b_{\lambda(l)}})\nonumber\\
&=\sum_{\substack{a_1,...,a_k=1 \\ b_1,...,b_l=1}}^n\frac{\omega_{a_1}...\omega_{a_k}v^{b_1}...v^{b_l}}{k!l!}\sum_{\substack{\sigma\in S_k\\\lambda\in S_l}}\text{sgn}(\sigma)\text{sgn}(\lambda)\tilde T^{a_{\sigma(1)}...a_{\sigma(k)}}_{\hspace{0.2cm}b_{\lambda(1)}...b_{\lambda(l)}}\in\mathbb{F},
\end{align}
where $\mathbb{F}$ is the field up on which the vector space $V$ is defined. It is obvious that the action of the alternating map on an already alternating tensor is equal to the alternating tensor itself. Thus, the alternating map just "picks out" the alternating part of a general tensor.
Finally, since $\overline{\text{Alt}}(\tilde T)$ is an alternating $(k,l)$-tensor it can be expanded in the standard bases of both $\otimes^kV\otimes^lV^*$ and $\text{Alt}(\otimes^kV\otimes^lV^*)$. This is the general procedure on how to find the alternating (or in your rank-2 case, antisymmetric) part of a general tensor and the sums over the possible permutations can be substituted with appropriate sums over generalised Levi-Civita symbols.
For example, $$\sum_{\substack{\sigma\in S_k\\\lambda\in S_l}}\text{sgn}(\sigma)\text{sgn}(\lambda)\tilde T^{a_{\sigma(1)}...a_{\sigma(k)}}_{\hspace{0.2cm}b_{\lambda(1)}...b_{\lambda(l)}}=\sum_{\substack{\sigma\in S_k\\\lambda\in S_l}}\epsilon_{a_{\sigma(1)}...a_{\sigma(k)}}\epsilon^{b_{\lambda(1)}...b_{\lambda(l)}}\bar T^{a_{\sigma(1)}...a_{\sigma(k)}}_{\hspace{0.2cm}b_{\lambda(1)}...b_{\lambda(l)}}.$$
I hope this helps.