I've been looking at the field of metamaterials for quite a while, now. Most of it is predicated on the assumption (which is empirically demonstrable) that electromagnetic waves, when they reach a structure significantly beneath the wavelength of the light, 'feel' the material as being a homogeneous medium, with an effective refractive index. However, I'm having some difficulty understanding this. I often see equations such as those for plane waves (see below). However, I don't see how these provide any hints towards my problem about resolution into a homogenous medium, or any upper bound on the structure size of said medium. $$\boldsymbol{E}(\boldsymbol{r},t)=\boldsymbol{E_0}cos(\omega t-\boldsymbol{k}\cdot \boldsymbol{r} + \phi _0)$$ $$\boldsymbol{B}(\boldsymbol{r},t)=\boldsymbol{B_0}cos(\omega t-\boldsymbol{k}\cdot \boldsymbol{r} + \phi _0)$$ I've also seen several other equations which simply appear to treat light waves as existing at a single point, and not actually taking up any space.
I've taken a look at the diffraction limit, but I can't seem to find any logical reasoning for how this could be applicable (as its derivation appears to be based around the distance between the feature and an objective - well, here there is no objective), as well as applying the Heisenberg uncertainty principle (which either leads me in rather cyclic logic, or which references the patterns observed on a screen - which I again, don't see how it helps).
In short, I understand how a the fields of a light-wave interact with a barrier, but I can't find a reason why these interactions should somehow be bounded, in terms of their range, by the wavelength enough resolve periodic subwavelength structures into an effective homogenised medium.
Thank you for your time, and please alert me in the comments if I've phrased this badly!