The capstan equation will give me the relation between the tension force at both sides of a rope wrapped around a cylindrical object, but what happens in this situation where the 'rope' is something sticky like a tentacle that uses its entire length to wrap around the object? How would I define the tension at the "other end?"
The cylinder is rotating away from the tentacle. There is no additional wrapping of the rope so the body holding the tentacle could be considered to be pulled along with the rotation, gently slowing it until the rotation stops.