This is the table of elementary particles as used in the mathematical model called the standard model.
These are postulated in the model to be point particles, i.e. have zero size in (x,y,z). The model is very successful in describing the interactions of these particles using quantum field theory. By itself this collective observation validates also the presumed point nature of elementary particles.
Nevertheless there are experimental limits on the sizes, as models also have their limits and experimentalists test them. The electron radius for example
>Observation of a single electron in a Penning trap suggests the upper limit of the particle's radius to be 10^−22 meters. The upper bound of the electron radius of 10^−18 meters can be derived using the uncertainty relation in energy.
Therefore, wouldn't it be possible to have particles of any conceivable size, provided the energy, couldn't you have a photon the size of a building? Or one unimaginably smaller than the accepted size of a photon?
If Quantum Field Theory is accurate, all particles are actually just excitations of the field in which the particle interacts.
The actual particles taking part in experiments are described in QFT as wavepackets and wavepackets do have an extent.
The fact that experiments give an upper bound on the radius of elementary particles says that no, they cannot be of macroscopic size. Even though mathematics exists to describe wavepackets of the size of a building the experimental limits rule this out. Experiment trumps imagination, physics is an experimental discipline.
It may be that in some far future experiments a definite size is found for the electron. Then the QFT models will need modifications.
Am I missing something,
That the point particles in interacting QFT when modeling real experiments need wavepackets to be assigned to each interacting particle . These are limited in extent by the limits given by experiment.