You are not far off from one of the main research topics nowadays. It is known as quantum gravity (QG), i.e., a marriage of quantum theory's (QT) and General Relativity (GR). This question may already have related questions on this site, but yours merits an answer becuase of some of what you have thought about.
More of an explanation below, but the end result is that we don't know what happens in the very very small size scale where (or time or very very high energies - numbers below, but far from anything we can currently see or experiment at) spacetime may not make any sense, and at those scales things may look more like an un-formed highly energetic bubbling of 'things', which Wheeler called quantum foam, where spacetime does not yet exist, and neither do any of the particles we know. The thought/hope was that as the size scale increases that spacetime emerges out of it. There are actually a few theories (really proposed theories) as to what it may really looks like, the idea that it may look like that is that at those sizes and time intervals what might otherwise be spacetime is undergoing quantum fluctuations which is bubbling all over. The foam theory never really got totally formed, the modern version of that is called spin networks. See an article on quantum foam at http://abyss.uoregon.edu/~js/ast123/lectures/lec17.html
which includes a figure used often to depict what it might look like as you look at smaller and smaller scales.
The way spacetime looked like during the early Planckian time is also something that would exist in our universe now if we look small enough, i.e., at the Planck scale, smaller than any elementary particles.
This epoch in the universe's evolution was thought to be what the universe first looked like, called the Planckian epoch. The scales were from the Big Bang of the universe to about $10^{-34}$ secs.
See the Wikipedia history of the universe for something on the Planckian epoch at https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chronology_of_the_universe
At those times we expect that a Quantum Gravity theory is needed to explain what is there.
The same is true if we try to look NOW at size scales of about $10^{-35}$ m. No atoms, particles, or spacetime, just whatever it is that Quantum Gravity can describe thinGs as.
Quantum Gravity is described and discussed in the Wikipedia article https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quantum_gravity.
It is understood that in the very very small scale (time scale, size scale, or higher energy scale, roughly 15 orders of magnitude more than the energy we can accelerate particles to in the Large Hadron Collider; it turns out those scales are equivalent and called the Planck scale) QT and GR both apply so they need to work together. But when we try to make them work together the results are either inconsistent or lead to infinities that we can not get away from. This last issue is labeled as that quantization of GR leads to a non-renormalizable theory.
There are now a number of theories of QG. The best known ones are String Theory (ST, and its cousins, Superstrings and M Theory) and Loop QG (LQG).
ST says that what exists at those scales are quantum strings, and extensions of those to higher dimensions, like 2-membranes, 3-volumes, etc. ST requires 10 or 11 spacetime dimensions, all spatial except one is time. The idea is that all but 4 are wrapped up in sub-microscopic dimensions, and called Calabi-Yau manifolds. You can see a depiction of one in the QG Wikipedia article. The different vibrations of the strings composing the theory lead to the different possible particles in the universe, and ST dynamics decides what happens. One of those particles is the spin 2 graviton, and in fact at lower energy scales ST recovers General Relativity (i.e., that spacetime variations or curvature is gravity and its equations). The problem with ST is that it has too many arbitrary parameters, and it has not been possible to find experimental evidence for it. The most worked recent part of the theory is one where the Holographic principle may hold, and there have been results found where the String solution has been found based on that Holographic principle (also called the CFT/AdS correspondence if you want to search). ST is also a Theory of Everything. (TOE), it aims to unify/explain all the forces. ST is labeled as background dependent, it posits Lorentzian spacetime in 10-11 dimensions to start with. The Holographic principle makes it weakly background independent.
The other theory, LQG, is background independent (i.e., it does not assume any spacetime background to start) but it does not aim to be a TOE, just of gravity in the quantum realm. You can Google it. Not as much current research on it as on the different versions of ST, though ST (except for the CFT/AdS versions) is on a lull because it depends on supersymmetry being true (not totally, but the easiest versions), and we keep on not finding a supersymmetric particle although the LHC energies should be in the range of the lightest ones. So things remain at play, without a clear idea of what a true QG theory may look like.
The bottom line is that nobody knows what spacetime looks like, or is, at the Planckian scales and smaller, and until we do have a working and semi-verified theory spacetime as we know it may not exist at those scales. The Quantum Gravity work aims at finding out what is spacetime at those scales.