In time-independent perturbation theory, one writes $$\hat{H}=\hat{H}_0+\lambda \hat{H}^\prime$$ where $\lambda H^\prime$ is a "small" perturbation.
Why should the perturbation be small for perturbation theory to work?
Both $\hat{H}_0$ and $\hat{H}^\prime$ are operators. Therefore, what does it mean to say the perturbation is "small"? I think, saying $\lambda \hat{H}^\prime\ll \hat{H}_0$ is meaningless.
Is it that the matrix elements of $\lambda\hat{H}^\prime$ much smaller than that of $\hat{H}_0$ in the eigenbasis of $\hat{H}_0$? If yes, why is such a mathematical requirement necessary? In other words, what if the matrix elements of $\lambda\hat{H}^\prime$ are comparable to that of $\hat{H}_0$?