Note:
I acknowledge that this thought experiment is rather crude due to it's lack of quantum mechanical emphasis however I am really looking for a more principled explanation if possible. All I kindly ask is that you try to peel through my words in attempt to understand my point if I did not correctly represent the question; after all I am not really sure how else to ask it.
Intro:
Suppose there was a proton with a mass and charge denoted by $m_{p}$ and $e_{+}$ respectively and one could calculate the electric field energy of the proton by $\frac{\epsilon_{0}}{2}\int_{R}^{\infty}\left | \textbf{E}\right |^{2}dV = \frac{\epsilon_{0}}{2}\int_{R}^{\infty}\left | \frac{e+}{4\pi \epsilon_{0} r^{2}}\right |^{2}4\pi r^{2} dr = \frac{e_{+}^{2}}{8 \pi \epsilon_{0}R}$ and the rest mass energy by $m_{p}c^{2}$.
Question:
How exactly does the electric field energy of the proton relate to the mass-energy of the proton?
Motivation:
This question is motivated by the fact that if an electron can simply cancel a proton's electric field assuming they were separated by an infinitesimal distance (again crude), the total energy would just be $\left (m_{p} + m_{e} \right )c^{2}$ and yet such a reduction in electric field energy would seem to reduce the mass energy of both particles since the electric field energy is (assumed to be) encompassed within it.
*This zero reduction in mass-energy seems to contraction the notion that the electric field energy of some particle is contained the mass energy.
In reality I do understand that the information regarding the field's existence is not lost (which may ultimately answer my question) however I am unsure how to rectify the relationship between the electric field energy and the mass-energy in a straightforward way and any guidance would be much appreciated.
Thanks in advance you ridiculously amazing people.