I am reading Carroll's book. So looking at the Newtonian limit we write $g_{\mu\nu} = \eta_{\mu\nu} + h_{\mu\nu}$ where $h_{\mu\nu}$ is some small perturbation. He says that because $g^{\mu\nu}g_{\nu\sigma} = \delta^{\mu}_{\sigma}$ then, to first order in $h$, we have $g^{\mu\nu} = \eta^{\mu\nu} - h^{\mu\nu}$ where $h^{\mu\nu} = \eta^{\mu \rho} \eta^{\nu \sigma}h_{\rho \sigma}$. I don't see how this is the form of $g^{\mu \nu}$ to first order in $h$ though. Suppose $g$ does indeed have that form, then \begin{align*} g^{\mu \nu}g_{\nu \sigma} &= (\eta^{\mu \nu} - h^{\mu \nu})(\eta_{\nu \sigma} + h_{\nu \sigma}) \\ &= \eta^{\mu \nu} \eta_{\nu \sigma} + \eta^{\mu \nu} h_{\nu \sigma} - h^{\mu \nu} \eta_{\nu \sigma} - h^{\mu \nu}h_{\nu \sigma} \end{align*}
We want this be equal to $\eta^{\mu \nu} \eta_{\nu \sigma}$, meaning all those other terms have to be quadratic in $h$, but none of them appear to be?