It sounds like both Griffiths and your lecturer are trying to come up with a mechanical rule for what you should say about states and measurement results instead of an explanation. I could be wrong about that since I have only your report to go on, but the appropriate explanation follows.
Say you have a state $\psi = a\phi_1 + b\phi_2$, where $\phi_1,\phi_2$ are eigenstates of an observable $\hat{A}$. A measurement of $\hat{A}$ transfers information about $\hat{A}$ from the system being measured to a measuring instrument in some ready state $\alpha_0$. An interaction that does this would do the following $\phi_j\alpha_0 \to \phi_j\alpha_j$. The joint state of the measuring apparatus and system would then be
$$a\phi_1\alpha_1 + b\phi_2\alpha_2.$$
After the measurement the measurement device is present in two different versions: one for each possible outcome. These two versions will be unable to undergo interference as a result of decoherence:
https://arxiv.org/abs/1212.3245.
As a result, each version of the measurement instrument only sees one result. We can say that the relative states of the measurement instrument and particle are $\phi_1\alpha_1$ for one version and $\phi_2\alpha_2$ for the other. We can also say that in each of those relative states the observable has the corresponding eigenvalue. This is commonly taken to mean you can then ignore quantum mechanics, but decoherent systems can carry quantum information, so this assumption is wrong, see
http://arxiv.org/abs/quant-ph/9906007
and
http://arxiv.org/abs/1109.6223.
In a particular relative state, you can say the state of the system is $\phi_1$ say and that the measurement of the observable had a particular outcome. Saying that the measurement had a particular outcome or the system has a particular state outside that context is wrong. The lecturer and the textbook author are both wrong if they told you anything else.