If there are $N$ single-particle states labeled by $1,2,3,\cdots,N$, it is said that the general two-boson state is given by
$$|\Psi\rangle=\sum_{i,j=1}^N \omega_{ij}a_i^\dagger a_j^\dagger |0\rangle$$
where $\omega_{ij}$ is a complex symmetric matrix.
My question is why $\omega_{ij}$ needs to be symmetric.
Because
$$a_i^\dagger a_j^\dagger = a_j^\dagger a_i^\dagger ,$$
only $\omega_{ij}+\omega_{ji}$ needs to be fixed.
It seems that the matrix $\omega_{ij}$ is not unique.
Is it true that the requirement for $\omega_{ij}$ to be symmetric is just for convenience?