Can anyone explain how force is exerted on car seats during a crash?
I am being told in car seat safety forums that force=mass×acceleration. So if a 2000lb vehicle bumps you at even 5mph, the force exerted on your car seat equals 10000lb, which is good reason to replace the seat.
The formula is correct. $F=ma$. This is the total force $F$ it takes to accelerate a mass $m$ with the acceleration $a$.
Now, the point is - maybe surprisingly - not the speed of the car! The point is not how fast you are going (or how fast the bumping car is going).
The point is how fast you are decelerating. In other words, how fast you are speeding down! If you drive the car strait into a stone wall, it is a lot more damaging for the child on the back seat than if you drive into a large soft vertical foam matress.
Why? Because the foam matress makes the car (and you) slow down slowlier! It simply takes longer for the speed to go from 5mhp to 0mhp, which means that the deceleration (negative acceleration) $a$ is smaller and therefore the force $F$ is smaller as well.
My husband (an engineer), says it's not that simple and that the mass being used in the above equation should not be the mass of the vehicle but that of the child and car seat combined.
Yes, because $F$ in the formula above is the total force needed to accelerate the mass $m$. And what you are interested in is the force on the child, so the child would be your $m$. The force on the car might be very different and much larger than the force on the child.
I am not quite sure from the question, exactly what object you wish to look at, so I've assumed we are looking at the impact on the child. If you wish to look at the seat alone, we should define what the seat exactly is (or is a childs seat?)
He also said something about the energy transfer into the brakes, the bumper, and car seats - therefore not all of that force is being applied to the car seat.
Yes, here comes a point of car evolution and improvements. This is the reason that we cannot just calculate the impact force on people in a car - it is way too complicated with way too many unknown factors - so crash tests are what is being used.
The point is again that the foam wall is making the impact softer because is gives the car more time to slow down from the 5mhp to 0mhp. We want to avoid a sudden stop, which would cause a large deceleration.
So, if we do hit a stone wall, we must instead imitate the foam somewhere else. For example in the structure of the car before the impact reaches the child on the backseat.
In accidents you very often see extremely damaged and crumbled cars - it looks very violent even when the people inside weren't that injured. That is because many bigger cars are made so their frontend will crumble a lot. This is like a foam sponge that absorbs the energy because it slows the car down more slowly than if the car was totally rigid.
This foam sponge effect is the case in many cases throughout the car chasis - everywhere where the car is not perfectly rigid, energy is absorbed for the car deformation giving the rest of the car and passengers more time to slow down.
The airbag on the frontseats works like a pillow that your head can hit. Then, when the head flies forward, because the car is being stopped suddenly, it is slowly slowed down by this "pillow" and decelerated less just over a longer period of time. If the airbag wasn't there, the head might continue with the same speed until it hits the dashboard and there it would be stopped suddenly and experience a large deceleration. Or, the neck would have to stop the head and maybe the bones and the body is not strong enough the cause this deceleration of the head, so something will break.