The stationary Schrödinger equation for the hydrogen atom is given by
$ \left(-\frac{\hbar^2}{2m_e}\Delta_e -\frac{\hbar^2}{2m_k}\Delta_k - \frac{Z e^2}{4\pi \varepsilon_0 |\vec r_e - \vec r_k|} \right) \Psi(\vec r_e, \vec r_k) = \mathrm E \Psi(\vec r_e, \vec r_k) $
where the subindex $e$ stands for electron and likewise $k$ for the core.
I don´t understand the Coulomb potential. The Coulomb potential of the total system is the electron in the field of the core and the other way around, the core in the field of the electron. So why is there a factor 2 missing in the Coulomb potential?
I know that in further analysis we can neglect the kinetic energy of the core and just consider a relative motion $\vec r=\vec r_e - \vec r_k$. Is this already the Born-Oppenheimer Approximation in disguise?