this electromagnetic mass $m_\textrm{elec}$ has to be added to the standard "mechanical mass" of the sphere to give the total observed mass of the object.
Would this view be accepted by most physicists today?
That is a wrong idea. Why?
There is no reason (in this case) to count quantity $m_\textrm{elec}$, defined based on EM momentum distributed in the whole infinite space, to total mass of the sphere.
Since $m_\textrm{elec}$ is introduced in a setting where the sphere moves, let's think about this setting. Presumably the ideas behind counting $m_\textrm{elec}$ as contribution to inertial mass are something like these:
- when an external (non-electromagnetic) force $\mathbf F_\textrm{ext}$ acts on the charged sphere, the equation of motion of the sphere can be written as
$$
\frac{d}{dt} \bigg( \gamma m_\textrm{mech}\mathbf v \bigg)=\mathbf F_\textrm{ext} + \mathbf F_\textrm{em.stress}
$$
where $m_\textrm{mech}$ is mechanical mass of the uncharged sphere and $\mathbf F_\textrm{em.stress}$ is EM self-force acting on the sphere due to its own charges and expressible by the Maxwell stress tensor.
- The em. stress force can be expressed as
$$
\mathbf F_\textrm{em.stress} = -\frac{d\mathbf P_\textrm{Poynting}}{dt}
$$
where $\mathbf P_\textrm{Poynting}$ is Poynting momentum (integral of the Poynting momentum density) of the field outside the sphere.
- $\mathbf P_\textrm{Poynting}$ is, at least for low velocities, directly proportional to velocity of the sphere, similarly to mechanical momentum:
$$
\mathbf P_\textrm{Poynting} = m_\textrm{em} \mathbf v
$$
where $m_\textrm{em}$ is coefficient dependent on charge and size of the sphere. It was named electromagnetic mass.
Together, these 3 ideas lead to conclusion that charged sphere has greater mass.
Idea 1. is true in macroscopic theory; it is a formulation of equation of motion in the presence of EM and non-EM forces.
The idea 2. is true only provided flux of EM momentum to or from the infinity is zero. This is true if the field is electrostatic outside some imaginary sphere containing the material sphere in question. Granted, this may be assumed true since we have no evidence to the contrary - who knows what's out there. Still, it is a special assumption with no ground in experience.
(EM momentum outside the sphere has no immediate link to the motion of the sphere. If you're thinking that rate of change of $\mathbf P_\textrm{Poynting}$ gives minus the rate of change of the remaining momentum in the sphere and its inside, this is unjustified because we do not know that total momentum of the world is constant - that depends on the state of the field at infinity and that is not part of the theory.)
The idea 3. is valid only as long as the sphere moves rectilinearly. For such motion, the inertial mass of the sphere does not manifest in any way. The sphere needs to be subjected to external force and change in its velocity needs to be measured. When the velocity changes, the EM field in the observer frame is no longer that of rectilinerly moving sphere, but contains ripples. This means the formula in 3 is no longer justified and in most cases it will be invalid.
This means the idea of EM mass based on EM momentum of field outside is erroneous. It is also unnecessary, since we have the equation of motion (see 1.) that can be used to model the motion of the sphere (with normal mechanical mass only).
This does not mean there is no electromagnetic mass though; only that in this particular case, it was calculated in an invalid way.
Systems of charges that remain together for some time and have non-zero EM energy distributed in their vicinity do experience mass defect (positive or negative) due to mutual EM interaction. For example, positive and negative particle close together will have positive mass defect - lower inertial mass than is sum of their mechanical masses.
Have any experiments been performed that show the effect of the additional electromagnetic mass on the dynamics of a macroscopic charged object?
I do not think so.