The difference between the whole system properties and its constituents can be explained on two-particle system. Consider positronium (electron+positron) in the state $l=1$. The quantum number $l$ describes the relative motion of constituents. This state has a magnetic moment, which belongs to the whole system.
But when you consider the angular momentum operator of one particle in this system, for example, that of the electron, it is uncertain: it is equal to $\mathbf{l}/2+\mathbf{\delta}$, where $\mathbf{l}$ is the total angular momentum and $\mathbf{\delta}$ is a fluctuating part. The latter part fluctuates due to coupling to the other particle. Similarly, the positron angular momentum operator equals $\mathbf{l}/2-\mathbf{\delta}$ and is uncertain too. The expectation value of $(l_z)_{\rm{e}}$ is $\hbar/2$, but it is not an eigenvalue!
The sum of operators is not fluctuating thanks to compensation of fluctuating parts. The same reasoning is valid for the "magnetic moments" of constituents.
Generally a coupled constituent is in a mixed state, so its quantum numbers have certain expectation values, but have no eigenvalues.