What is the difference between proper time and the observer time?
Whilst thinking about Black holes, when we see the Schwarzschild metric
$$c^2\tau ^2 = \left ( 1 - \frac{r_{s}}{r} \right )c^2t^2 - \frac{r^2}{1-\frac{r_{s}}{r}} - r^2d\Omega ^2,$$
and compare it with Einstein's special relativity equation, $$c^2\tau ^2 = c^2t^2 - x^2,$$
we find that at the horizon of a black hole or at the schwarzschild radius for any infinitesimally small time spend by any object at the horizon the observers time tends to infinite
Why and how is this so? it doesnt make sense whilst trying to imagine it?