Suppose two entangled particles are far apart. One is with Alice and the other is with Bob. The relative velocity between Alice and Bob is zero (and spacetime is flat), so that we can define a notion of simultaneity that is agreed upon by both observers.
Before measurement, the joint is wavefunction of the particles is $\frac{1}{\sqrt{3}}|up, down\rangle +\frac{\sqrt{2}}{\sqrt{3}} |down,up\rangle$. The second spin label is of Bob's particle
Suppose, at time $t_0$, Bob measures his particle and observes $|down\rangle$.
Can we say that, after time $t_0$, Alice's description of the joint system should become : $|up, down \rangle$?
Or should it become:
$$\frac{1}{\sqrt{3}}|up, down, \text{Bob measured up}\rangle +\frac{\sqrt{2}}{\sqrt{3}} |down,up, \text{Bob measured down}\rangle$$
If the first option is correct, how does it not violate locality? I am thinking that the first option involves the information, that Bob has made a measurement, to instantaneously travel to Alice's end.