Suppose I have two objects of equal mass and volume, in space, in contact with one another.
The two objects exert equal and opposite gravitational force on each other. Let us apply a force $F$ on one of the objects, to separate it from the other. This is similar to lifting a mass on the surface of the Earth.
The external force is such that, the velocity remains constant. Hence, the change in Kinetic energy is essentially $0$. Hence, the net Work done in this scenario must also be $0$.
Let us look at the moving object and consider that to be our system.
There are two external forces : The force due to us, and the force of attraction due to the other mass. Hence :
$$F_{us}+F_g=F_{net}=0$$
Thus, $$W_{net}=0\,\,\,and\,\,\,\,\,F_{us}=-F_g=\frac{GMM}{r^2}$$
Now let us consider the two objects to be our system.
Now there is only one external force, and two equal and opposite internal forces. The net work done must still be $0$. However, I run into trouble, when I try to expand and write this.
$$W_{net}=W_{ext}+W_{int}=\frac{GMM}{r}+W_{int}$$
However, there are two internal forces here, of the same magnitude. According to the first mass, the second mass is moving away, and hence, work done is $-GMM/r$. Similarly, according to the second mass, the first mass is moving away, opposite to the force, so the work done must again be equal to $-GMM/r$.
Hence, total internal work $W_{int}=\frac{-2GMM}{r}$
If I plug this back in, I'd get $W_{net}=\frac{-GMM}{r}\ne 0$
What am I missing here, and how come the two situations don't agree with one another. What would be the correct way to think about this ?
What is the correct definition of potential energy here. Is it $\Delta P=-W_{int}$ ? Since there are two internal forces, shouldn't there be two internal works ?