Your first question
How is this law proven? I am not asking about the proof itself rather asking about the preliminary assumptions.
The parallelogram law, mathematically speaking, is a result of an affine space. In simple terms, an affine space is a space that is flat. For example, the surface of a table and standard 3D space are affine spaces. The surface of a sphere, on the other hand, is not an affine space.
We first need to understand what a vector space is. A vector space is a set whose elements must obey certain rules. The elements are called vectors only if all the rules are satisfied.
An affine space is a set of points and a vector space, together with an addition operation that adds vectors (from the vector space) to points.
Let $P,Q$ be points and $\mathbf{u},\mathbf{v}$ be vectors. The addition is defined to satisfy two properties:
- $(P+\mathbf{u})+ \mathbf{v} = P+(\mathbf{u}+
\mathbf{v})$
- There is a unique vector $\overrightarrow{PQ}$ that goes from $P$ to $Q$.
An aside
We can add vectors to vectors (from vector addition in the vector space), as well as vectors to points (with the definition above), but it would make no sense to add points to points without defining a privileged point known as the origin.
Simply put, this is just saying that vectors are the displacements from point to point. From this definition, the following identities (which hopefully look familiar) can be proven without much difficulty:
- $\overrightarrow{PQ} + \overrightarrow{QR} = \overrightarrow{PR}$
- $P + \mathbf{0} = P$
- If $\overrightarrow{PQ} = \mathbf{0}$, then $P = Q$
- $\overrightarrow{PQ} = -\overrightarrow{QP}$
where $\mathbf{0}$ is the zero vector. We can then prove the parallelogram law:
$$\text{If} \;\; \overrightarrow{P_1Q_1} = \overrightarrow{P_2Q_2} \\ \overrightarrow{P_1Q_1} + \overrightarrow{Q_1P_2} = \overrightarrow{P_2Q_2} + \overrightarrow{Q_1P_2} \\ \overrightarrow{P_1P_2} = \overrightarrow{Q_1P_2} + \overrightarrow{P_2Q_2} \\
\therefore \overrightarrow{P_1P_2} = \overrightarrow{Q_1Q_2}$$
where we have used the first identity as well as the commutativity of vector addition.
Your second question
I could understand that this is applicable for displacement since it coincides with intuition. But how is it applicable for velocity or force?
From the above we have shown that displacements are vectors in an affine space. Therefore we need to prove that velocity, acceleration and force are vectors. Velocity is defined to be the rate of change of displacement. Let $\mathbf{r}(t)$ be the displacement from a fixed point. The velocity is then
$$\frac{\text{d} \mathbf{r}}{\text{d}t} = \lim \limits_{\Delta t \to 0} \frac{\mathbf{r}(t+\Delta t) - \mathbf{r}(t)}{\Delta t}$$
The numerator $\mathbf{r}(t+\Delta t)- \mathbf{r}(t)$ is the difference of two vectors which is also a vector. The numerator multiplied by $1/\Delta t$ is also a vector by scalar multiplication. Therefore we have proven that velocity is also a vector. By the same logic, acceleration is also a vector and so on.