Let's imagine that you are standing in a field. You have a ball that weighs 10 grams. You throw this ball at 40 kph. If I understand things correctly, this ball now has kinetic energy relative to your still reference frame (and I suppose you to it?).
Since E=mc^2, and this ball has increased "energy", wouldn't the mass of this ball be more than the original 10 grams?
If the answer is yes, then I imagine you would measure this increased mass in your reference frame, but in its own reference frame it would be the original 10 grams.
The big implication with my follow up question about relative reconciliation is the difference in the gravitional field exhibited within the different reference frames. How would this difference be reconciled?