A problem in Halliday-Resnick's "Fundamentals of Physics" poses the question of finding the tension in a rope connecting two blocks of masses $m$ and $M$. The block with mass $m$ is hanging from a rope that goes over a pulley which is attached to a block of mass $M$ on a frictionless table. So as the block of mass $m$ falls, the rope will pull the block of mass $M$ across the table.
They calculate that $$T={M \over {M+m}}mg.$$ Now if I set $m:=100M$, we will then have $$T={M \over {M+100M}}100Mg \approx Mg.$$
This seems counterintuitive since the hanging block is much more massive (100 times as much mass), but the the tension in the rope is being dictated by the much smaller mass on the table, which is just sitting there passively.
Can anyone resolve this apparent paradox?