In general relativity the christoffel symbols 'pop' out of the metric $g^{\mu \nu} dx_\mu dx_\nu$. When $g^{\mu \nu} dx_\mu dx_\nu$ is integrated it is a measure of distance between the $2$ points. Using this as a starting point we have:
$$ \frac{8 \pi G}{c^4}T^{\mu \nu} = G^{\mu \nu}$$
where $T^{\mu \nu}$ is the stress energy tensor and $G^{\mu \nu}$ is the Einstien tensor. In the weak field limit one can derive Poisson's equation:
$$ \nabla^2 \phi = 4 \pi G \rho $$
However, when Newtonian gravity approximated and integrated from the Poisson equation, we get:
$$ U_g = - G \frac{m_1 m_2}{r}$$
where $r$ is the displacement. More precisely if I look at the action in general relativity:
$$ S_{GR} = \int (g^{\mu \nu} dx_\mu dx_\nu)^{1/2} $$
This is a measure of distance. However the action in Newtonian gravity is:
$$ S_{NG} = \int (\frac{1}{2}m_1 v^2 + G \frac{m_1 m_2}{r}) dt $$
where $r$ is displacement.
I feel I missed something subtle on how distance became displacement. Does anyone mind sharing a proof with this point in mind?