I'm adding another answer since you've substantially changed the question. I feel we're getting out of the realm of appropriate stackexchange etiquette here with so much discussion and changing thing around. Maybe a mod can suggest how best to proceed. Anyways, here's my answer.
I agree whole-heartedly with your first paragraph
I disagree whole-heartedly with your second paragraph. your first statement is:
It seems to me that we would see the mirror moving (and measure it as
moving) at +np – which would be the radiation pressure from the
reflection.
This is incorrect. If we measured the momentum of the mirror we could measure any momentum $0, +2p, +4p, \ldots, +np, \ldots, +2np$. As you've pointed out, it is mostly likely that we measure $+np$. However, since the mirror is in a superposition of many momentum states it is not possible for us to predict before-hand what momentum we will measure if we measure it. We can only ascribe probabilities to each possible momentum, where the probability is given by the weighting of that term in the description of the state of the mirror.
Consider a mirror which is first hit by one photon, $\gamma_1$ and then a second photon, $\gamma_2$. The initial state of this system is
$$\lvert 0 \rangle_M \lvert +p\rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert+p\rangle_{\gamma_2}$$
Where the subscripts refer to the state of the mirror, $M$, and the two photons, $\gamma_1$ and $\gamma_2$.
After the first photon hits the mirror the state is
$$\frac{1}{\sqrt{2}} \big( \lvert 0 \rangle_M \lvert +p\rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert+p\rangle_{\gamma_2} +\lvert +2p \rangle_M \lvert -p \rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert +p \rangle_{\gamma_2} \big) $$
After the second photon hits the mirror the quantum state is
$$
\frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}\Big(\frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}\big(\lvert 0 \rangle_M \lvert +p \rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert +p \rangle_{\gamma_2} + \lvert +2p \rangle_M \lvert +p \rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert -p \rangle_{\gamma_2}\big) + \frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}\big(\lvert +2p \rangle_M \lvert -p \rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert +p \rangle_{\gamma_2} + \lvert +4p \rangle_M \lvert -p \rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert -p \rangle_{\gamma_2}\big)\Big)
$$
You see that upon each reflection each term splits into two terms. One where the mirror had no change in momentum and the photons momentum was not changed and one where the mirror got a kick of $+2p$ and the photon was reflected.
Say we now perform a measurement on the momentum of the mirror. The possible outcomes are $0$, $+2p$, or $+4p$.
If we measure $0$ then we know we have "collapsed" the quantum state into the first term or first "branch". This means that we know both $\gamma_1$ and $\gamma_2$ would reveal momentum $+p$ upon measurement of their momenta. The state has collapsed to $\lvert 0 \rangle_M \lvert +p \rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert +p \rangle_{\gamma_2}$. Note that momentum is conserved.
If we measure the mirror to have momentum $+4p$ we know we are in the last branch and thus both $\gamma_1$ and $\gamma_2$ would reveal momentum $-p$ upon measurement of their momenta. The state has collapsed to $\lvert +4p \rangle_M \lvert -p \rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert -p \rangle_{\gamma_2}$. Note that momentum is conserved.
Now, if we measure the momentum of the mirror to be $+2p$, then intuitively we know if we were to measure the momentum of the photons one of them would have been transmitted and one of them would have been reflected, but, just by measuring the momentum of the mirror we cannot determine which. This means that the state of the system after the measurement would be
$$
\frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}\big(\lvert +2p \rangle_M \lvert +p \rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert -p \rangle_{\gamma_2} + \lvert +2p \rangle_M \lvert -p \rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert +p \rangle_{\gamma_2} \big)
$$
That is, even after measurement the system is still in a superposition. This is because the measurement didn't give us FULL information about the quantum state. You can see that the momentum is definite but the photon is still in a superposition state.
Perhaps this explication helps you already?
Anyways, back to your question and the second paragraph. It is not clear what you mean when you talk about 'halves' of the photon or the 'overall' photon momentum. I think what is confusing you is whatever you mean by 'overall' momentum. I'm pretty what you are referring to as 'overall' momentum is not a thing. Instead, you should think about the photons momentum as I have illustrated it above. The total state of the system a superposition of different terms in which different things happened. In each of these terms the photon has a well-defined momentum. Whenever an interaction happens each term can split into multiple other terms. These different branches split and split until a measurement is made. When a measurement is made the state "collapses" into the subspace of branches which are consistent with that measurement.
The language I am using here is borrowed from the many-worlds interpretation of quantum mechanics, but you need not adopt that interpretation for this simple description of superposition/entanglement to make sense.
Let's extend this example a little more. Imagine we DON'T measure the momentum of the mirror or the first photon, but instead measure the momentum of photon 2, $\gamma_2$. Imagine we measure $+p$. Then the quantum state collapses to
$$
\frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}\big(\lvert 0 \rangle_M \lvert +p \rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert +p \rangle_{\gamma_2} + \lvert +2p \rangle_M \lvert -p \rangle_{\gamma_1} \lvert +p \rangle_{\gamma_2} \big)
$$
We know the momentum of the second photon, but the first photon and the mirror remain in a superposition state and the whole system remains in an entangled state.
You keep asking if this has been tested. I'm not sure exactly what experiment you are imagining, but I can tell you that if you shine light on a beamsplitter and then use one output of the beamsplitter to illuminate atoms the light will certainly impart the expected momentum onto the atoms. I have performed this experiment.
In the comments you ask about an experiment in which a single photon hits a beamsplitter and confirmation that beamsplitter is only seen to be in the $\lvert 0 \rangle_M$ or $\lvert +2p \rangle_M$ and never $\lvert +p \rangle_M$. I can't think off of the top of my head of an experiment that does PRECISELY this. The first reason is that it is very difficult to measure the recoil of a massive mirror due to a single photon. I think many would say it is impossible. However, I have worked in the field of optomechanics where people regularly see single-photon, single-phonon interactions between an optical field (photons) and some mechanical object such as a mirror. Perhaps you can look up experiments on optomechanics to see if there is a specific experiment which satisfies your question.
What I can say is that the concepts of superposition, entanglement, and radiation pressure have been thoroughly studied and the theory underlying countless experiments relies on these concepts. The measurement of the mirror in state $\lvert +p \rangle_M$ would contradict all of these experimental results so I can say with certainty that if this experiment was able to be performed with the required precision you would not measure the mirror to be in state $\lvert +p \rangle_M$.
What I can also say is that the the single photon interaction is very similar to an EPR experiment for example. Notice that that photon and mirror form an EPR entangled state after the interaction. Many EPR pair experiments have been performed to test Bell's inequality for example, and these are all consistent with the usual results of quantum mechanics. These EPR experiments also demonstrate a kind of conservation law. if $\lvert \uparrow \rangle$ and $\lvert \downarrow \rangle$ represent angular momentum states then the EPR state
$$
\frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}\big(\lvert \uparrow \rangle_1 \lvert \downarrow \rangle_2 + \lvert \downarrow \rangle_1 \lvert \uparrow \rangle_2 \big)
$$
exhibits conservation of momentum in each "branch" just like the photons and beamsplitter. That is, if one of the particles is measured in state $\lvert \uparrow \rangle$ then we KNOW we could not measure the other particle to be in state $\lvert \rightarrow \rangle$, for example, because that would violate conservation of momentum. That is, unless the particles interact with something else which can carry away momentum.
Anyways, the point is these are basic results in superposition/entanglement upon which a lot of quantum theory and quantum experiments rely so I am certain of these results. There is probably a specific experiment out there in the field of single photon single phonon optomechanics or atom interferometry but I can't point to it now. EPR/Bell's inequality measurements may be of interest to you as well.