I have a fluid sphere (say a gas or a liquid of uniform density, under its own gravity) on which forces is applied to its surface. I would like to find its approximate shape (most probably an oblate ellipsoid), from the forces applied on its (initialy) spherical surface. Using spherical coordinates, the radial (pressure) and tangential (shear) forces are these : \begin{align}\tag{1} F_r(\vartheta) &= C \sin^3 \vartheta, \\[12pt] F_{\vartheta}(\vartheta) &= 4C \, \sin^2 \vartheta \, \cos{\vartheta}, \tag{2} \end{align} where $C$ is an arbitrary positive constant. In vectorial form : \begin{equation}\tag{3} \vec{\boldsymbol{\mathrm{F}}} = C \sin^3 \vartheta \, \vec{\boldsymbol{\mathrm{u}}}_r + 4C \, \sin^2 \vartheta \, \cos{\vartheta} \, \vec{\boldsymbol{\mathrm{u}}}_{\vartheta}. \end{equation} There's an axial symetry around the $z$ axis. The deformation may be considered "weak", as a first approximation ($C$ may be "small", compared to the gravitationnal force on the surface : $C \ll G M^2/R^2$).
Note that the pressure force is 0 at the poles, and maximal at the equator, so it tends to "squash" the sphere to an oblate ellipsoid (of unknown ellipticity). The shear force is 0 at the poles and at the equator.
Any idea about how to find the deformation's ellipticity?