Before I start, I promise this is not a duplicate. I've read through all of the answered related questions, and none of them have quite the insight I'm looking for. Below I've attached a spacetime diagram with a couple of events labeled, as well as what I'm guessing to be their Lorentz transformed projections in the other frame. I take the prime frame to be the moving one, and the unprimed to be at rest.
So far, I've been solving problems just fine using these diagrams, paired with the explicit calculations, but I've seem to hit an intuitive wall when I started asking some odd questions.
My first questions is regarding $ E_1 $. This event happens at t'=0, but at a non zero x', and if $ c t=\gamma(c t'+\beta x') $, then naturally we have $ ct \neq 0 $. I'm however, unsure as to what the coordinates of this event will be in R. I think I have the spatial coordinate fine just from projecting parallel to the $ct'$ axis, and seeing where that line cuts the $x$ axis. I'm not clear on what the time coordinate should be either. My intuition based on what I did with the last coordinate, tells me to draw a line through $E_1$ parallel to the $x'$ axis, but that leads me to $t=0$, which is false. The blue line guess for a projection leads me to a negative value, contrary to what I should see based on the mathematics, and this leaves me with the brown line, which is parallel to the $x$ axis.
My confusion arises from the fact that, for events occurring in the same place in R, transforming the coordinates involved projecting parallel to $ct'$ and $x'$. I would think that to go from R' to R would then have to project parallel to the axes of R instead, but this doesn't seem to work when doing other problems.
I guess my main question is, when do I project parallel to the primed axes, and when do I project parallel to the unprimed axes? What would that red projection line correspond to? I though I had this understood and have been solving problems, but alas, I'm stumped now that I've got this on my mind.