The way I understand it, is that gravity doesn't effect light directly because light has no mass. I understand that light follows the curvature of space-time. Gravity effects space-time, curving space-time more, the more gravity there is, therefore light following that curve of space-time.
If there was a singularity in a black hole, then there would be something for light to "hit" and means that light would follow the curve of space-time back out of the black hole. We know this doesn't happen.
So what I have understood, is that you are correct in saying black holes bend space-time infinitely, which is why we never see the light come back out, and why it doesn't make sense that there is a singularity. There can't be a singularity if the black hole curves space-time infinitely.
All that said, light follows the curvature of space-time into a black hole infinitely. This means that a black hole contains an infinite amount of space-time in all directions (once inside the black hole past the event horizon).
Given there is matter (energy) "falling" into the black hole, where there is an infinite amount of space-time, what do we have now? Another universe.
So here we are now, the inside of a black hole, inside of a black hole, inside of a black hole... infinitely.
Here's some references that kinda cover it:
https://www.insidescience.org/news/every-black-hole-contains-new-universe