There is something I am confused about when it comes to the force between two parallel wires carrying current, specifically why when they carry current in the same direction the wires are always attracted to each other, irrespective of the magnitude of the current they are carrying. I understand the explanation using Flemming's left hand rule and considering the electrons in each wire separately, but I come into problems when I think of the magnetic force as a relativistic effect...
If I were to consider the current in both wires being of the same magnitude and in the same direction, the electrons in each wire see the electrons in the other wire being stationary relative to them, but they see the positive ions in the other wire moving backwards. This means that they would see the space between the ions to be contracted, so the positive ion density is greater and the wire has an overall positive charge, and so the negative electrons are attracted to the other wire. Also, if I were to consider this from the case of the positive ions, they see the ions in the other wire as stationary and the electrons as moving, and so these are length contracted s the wire has an overall negative charge- againn the wires are attracted. So it seems to work out for this case.
However I am confused about the case when the current in one wire is more than twice the current in the other wire. If this were the case, then when considering the electrons in the wire with a smaller current, they would see the electrons in the other wire as having a greater speed relative to them than the positive ions in that wire, so theoretically the electrons should now see that the other wire has a greater negative charge density than positive charge density, and the wire should be repelled even thought the currents flow in the same direction. On the other hand, in the wire with the greater current the electrons would see the positive ions in the other wire as having a greater negative velocity than the electrons, so the wire with the larger current would see the wire with the smaller current as having an overall positive charge density, and therefore would be attracted to that wire. This makes no sense because the wires should experience equal and opposite forces- both should be either be attracted to each other or repelled from each other- by Newton's third law...
Am I thinking about this in the wrong way?
Thank you in advance :)