The CKM matrix is known to be unitary.
Now, is it just found experimentally?
Is the following idea correct?
We know that the weak force eigenstate $ \left( \begin{array}{c} d' \\ s' \\ b' \end{array} \right) $ are related to the physical state $ \left( \begin{array}{c} d \\ s \\ b \end{array} \right) $ via the Cabibbo-Kobayashi-Maskawa (CKM) matrix : $$ \left( \begin{array}{c} d' \\ s' \\ b' \end{array} \right) = V_{CKM}\left( \begin{array}{c} d \\ s \\ b \end{array} \right)$$
Orthogonality of the weak force eigenstates AND of the physical states dictates that: $$ ( d' s' b' ) \left( \begin{array}{c} d' \\ s' \\ b' \end{array} \right) = ( d s b ) \left( \begin{array}{c} d \\ s \\ b \end{array} \right) = 1 $$
SO:
$$1 = ( d' s' b' ) \left( \begin{array}{c} d' \\ s' \\ b' \end{array} \right) = V_{CKM}^{\dagger} V_{CMK} ( d s b ) \left( \begin{array}{c} d \\ s \\ b \end{array} \right) = V_{CKM}^{\dagger} V_{CMK}$$
Therefore $V_{CKM}^{\dagger} V_{CMK} = 1$