The simple answer is that we don't know because we have no theory of quantum gravity.
If I interpret your question correctly you're thinking about semiclassical gravity, where matter is quantised and gravity isn't. The Einstein equation becomes:
$$ \mathbf G = \langle \mathbf T \rangle $$
where $\mathbf G$ is the classical curvature, i.e. gravity, and $\langle\mathbf T\rangle$ is the expectation value of the stress-energy tensor. The problem with this is that if the matter, i.e. $\mathbf T$, is in a superposition that causes problems. As far as I know this was first discussed in The necessity of quantizing the gravitational field by Eppley and Hannah. There is a beginner friendly discussion of the issues involved in Sabine Hossenfelder's blog. So by asking about the gravitational field caused by matter that is in a state of superposition you've put your finger right on one of the fundamental problems.
Footnote:
A comment suggests I may have misunderstood the point of your question. Firstly a particle in a superposition of being in two places doesn't have an increased mass.
The particle is described by a wavefunction $\psi$ and the probability of finding the particle in some small volume $dV$ is given by:
$$ P = \psi^*\psi\,dV $$
If we add up all the probabilities (by integrating) we must get the value $1$, because the particle exists somewhere with probability $1$, so we get:
$$ \int\psi^*\psi\,dV = 1 $$
If the particle is in a superposition of being in two different places then its wavfunction is peaked in those two places, but because the probability must add up to one that means the value of $\psi$ in each place must be less (by a factor of about $\sqrt{2}$) than if the particle was in only one place. The density of our particle is:
$$ \rho = m\psi^*\psi $$
where $m$ is the mass of the particle. So if superposition reduces the value of $\psi$ it also reduces the density. No matter how the particle is delocalised, if we calculate the total mass by integrating we get:
$$ M = \int\rho\,dV = \int m\psi^*\psi dV = m \int \psi^*\psi dV = m $$
So the mass of the particle is always just $m$ and is unaffected by being in any form of superposition.
Secondly we should note that no large object is going to survive in a superposition for a detectable time because it interacts with its environment and decoheres. The most massive object for which superposition has been experimentally measured is tiny - around 50 microns in size. So there is no chance of you or a car being in a superposition.