Suppose we have a finite , discrete set of orthonormal states $|k\rangle $
We can construct raising and lowering operators intuitively, for example $$a_+ =\sum_{k=1}^nC_{k+1}|k+1\rangle \langle k|$$
However most textbooks begin by defining ladders in terms of the linear combinations of hermitian operators.
How do we get from the above construction to showing that such ladder operators have the form $$a_\pm = \frac{\alpha\pm i\beta}{\sqrt{2}}$$ where $\alpha,\beta$ are hermitian?