Rather than going on a definition chase, perhaps the following heuristic derivation of eqs. (F) & (G) from formula (H) below is the most convincing/satisfying/instructive. For sufficiently short times $|\Delta t| \ll \tau$, where $\tau$ is some characteristic time scale, i.e. in the diabatic limit, the particle only has time to feel an averaged effect of the potential $V$. So, using methods of Ref. 1, in that limit $|\Delta t| \ll \tau$, the path integral (B) with the $i\epsilon$-prescription reads
$$\begin{align} K(x_2,t_2;&x_1,t_1)\cr ~=~&\sqrt{\frac{m}{2\pi i\hbar |\Delta t|}} \exp\left\{ \frac{i}{\hbar}\left[ \frac{m}{2} \frac{(\Delta x)^2}{\Delta t}- \langle V\rangle \Delta t \right]\right\}, \end{align}\tag{H} $$$$\begin{align} K(x_2,t_2;&x_1,t_1)\cr ~=~&\sqrt{\frac{m}{2\pi i\hbar (\Delta t-i\epsilon)}} \exp\left\{ \frac{i}{\hbar}\left[ \frac{m}{2} \frac{(\Delta x)^2}{\Delta t-i\epsilon}- \langle V\rangle \Delta t \right]\right\}, \end{align}\tag{H} $$
IV) Proof of eq. (G). Note that it is implicitly assumed in eq. (H) that ${\rm Re}(i|\Delta t|)>0$${\rm Re}(i\Delta t+\epsilon)>0$ is slightly positive via the pertinent $i\epsilon$-prescription. Equation (G) then follows directly from eq. (H) via the heat kernel representation
$$ \begin{align} \frac{\partial}{\partial t_2} &K(x_2,t_2;x_1,t_1)\cr ~\stackrel{(H)}{=}~&-\left\{\frac{1}{2\Delta t} +\frac{i}{\hbar}\left[ \frac{m}{2} \left(\frac{\Delta x}{\Delta t}\right)^2+ \langle V\rangle +{\cal O}(\Delta t) \right]\right\} K(x_2,t_2;x_1,t_1),\end{align} \tag{L} $$$$ \begin{align} \frac{\partial}{\partial t_2} &K(x_2,t_2;x_1,t_1)\cr ~\stackrel{(H)}{=}~&-\left\{\frac{1/2}{\Delta t-i\epsilon} +\frac{i}{\hbar}\left[ \frac{m}{2} \left(\frac{\Delta x}{\Delta t-i\epsilon}\right)^2+ \langle V\rangle +{\cal O}(\Delta t) \right]\right\} K(x_2,t_2;x_1,t_1),\end{align} \tag{L} $$
$$ \begin{align} \frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial}{\partial x_2} &K(x_2,t_2;x_1,t_1)\cr ~\stackrel{(H)}{=}~&\left\{m \frac{\Delta x}{\Delta t} +{\cal O}(\Delta t) \right\} K(x_2,t_2;x_1,t_1), \end{align}\tag{M}$$$$ \begin{align} \frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial}{\partial x_2} &K(x_2,t_2;x_1,t_1)\cr ~\stackrel{(H)}{=}~&\left\{m \frac{\Delta x}{\Delta t-i\epsilon} +{\cal O}(\Delta t) \right\} K(x_2,t_2;x_1,t_1), \end{align}\tag{M}$$
$$ \begin{align} \frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{1}{2m}&\frac{\partial^2}{\partial x_2^2} K(x_2,t_2;x_1,t_1) \cr ~\stackrel{(H)}{=}~&\left\{\frac{1}{2\Delta t} +\frac{i}{\hbar} \frac{m}{2} \left(\frac{\Delta x}{\Delta t}\right)^2 +{\cal O}(\Delta t) \right\} K(x_2,t_2;x_1,t_1). \end{align} \tag{N}$$$$ \begin{align} \frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{1}{2m}&\frac{\partial^2}{\partial x_2^2} K(x_2,t_2;x_1,t_1) \cr ~\stackrel{(H)}{=}~&\left\{\frac{1/2}{\Delta t-i\epsilon} +\frac{i}{\hbar} \frac{m}{2} \left(\frac{\Delta x}{\Delta t-i\epsilon}\right)^2 +{\cal O}(\Delta t) \right\} K(x_2,t_2;x_1,t_1). \end{align} \tag{N}$$