# Bear with me, this is a stupid question. Talking on the phone and time

So a few days ago I noticed (im sure we all just know this) that when talking on the phone you receive the messages a few seconds after it is said by the sender.

So person A says "hello" to person B.

In person A's time frame they now finished saying "hello" and it has started traveling down the telephone wires/3G to a tower to the other persons phone and it arrives (lets just say) a second later. To person A, they must wait for their message to send (1s) and a return (1s). (I am trying to say 1s is the signal propagation time for each person to get the others message)

In person B's time frame they say nothing, until they hear hello. So they wait 1s and hear "hello". Then they respond with "hello Person A" back. Which takes 1s to get there.

So why do telephone conversation feel like they are happening in real-time? (I know this is common sense, but I want to see it spelled out; i.e. I know the sky is blue, but why?)

Are person A and B talking NOw but the actual information exchange is happen 2* propagation time later?

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But note that a case where this IS noticeable is the radio chatter between ground control and the Apollo astronauts. Look up some video of that, and you'll see it. –  Jerry Schirmer Apr 1 '13 at 20:37

It is very simple, you are overestimating the propagation time. The signal travels with speed in the order of the speed of light. Suppose the information travels with $0.1c$, and you have a conversation over 1000 km, then the propagation time would be $10^6/(0.1\times 3\times 10^8)$, which would be approximately 30 ms, this is the reason you barely notice anything.

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If I were to notice something, would it just be a pause between what I say and an answer? (obviously) –  BumSkeeter Apr 1 '13 at 18:36
I would guess so. Or a delay by the machine converting sound into the signal (and vice versa). –  Bernhard Apr 1 '13 at 18:39
Can the downvoter please explain what is wrong about my answer? –  Bernhard Apr 2 '13 at 5:35

When you speak into your phone, your sound waves are converted into electric signals which then travel to the other end through the electric cable at the speed of light. So, with a rough calculation, it would take about 20 miliseconds to cross the entire US. That's why it feels instant.

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It's rather 20ms, you missed a "km to m" conversion somewhere in your calculation. –  JJ Fleck Apr 1 '13 at 19:08
@JJFleck oops, that was a typo. fixed thanks. –  Isopycnal Oscillation Apr 1 '13 at 19:30
Electricity does not flow at speed of light. –  Kris Van Bael Apr 1 '13 at 21:20
@KrisVanBael: Electrons no, but signal, almost. –  JJ Fleck Apr 1 '13 at 21:42
@KrisVanBael sure if you want to be pedantic about it. I am just saying it is on the same order as the speed of light. –  Isopycnal Oscillation Apr 1 '13 at 23:56

Whether or not a telephone conversation with latency above, say, 150 ms "feels" like "happening in real-time", differs for different people. In the following graph you'll see that more and more people start to get dissatisfied as the latency increases. (I assume that (very) satisfied means that one doesn't "really" notice, but there is room for different interpretations.)

Source: ITU-T Recommendation G.114

NB: There are several elements to latency, not just distance. See the link in my first sentence.

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Back in the day, I made a number of international calls that were routed by satellite and suffered from the delay. I found it took training to make the conversation work. It seemed that it came because I would say my piece and signal (by tone of voice, etc.) that I was done. When I didn't hear a response after the expected time, I would conclude the other person had nothing to say and would start talking again. Their voice would come in and we would be talking over each other. With training, you could make it work. –  Ross Millikan Apr 1 '13 at 20:48
@RossMillikan I had a thought similar to that. If you're "polite", you might want to be absolutely sure that the other person is done talking before replying. Therefore, more "polite" people might not notice the delay. But the not so "polite" people will notice much earlier. :) –  Glen The Udderboat Apr 1 '13 at 20:54