This is probably not the kind of question you'll often encounter on this forum, but I think a bit of background is needed for this question to make sense and not seem like a duplicate:
2012 has been an annus horribilis in my life. I have lost a lot of close relatives in a sudden surge of cardiovascular diseases in my family. I also discovered I inherited genetic diseases and that I'll probably undergo the same fate sooner or later.
One of the people I've lost is my father. We used to talk about physics all the time, and ever since I was 5 I kept telling him my dream was contributing to the field. When I lost him a couple of months ago, I used studying as an emotional outlet. He always emphasized the importance of academic excellence, and for this reason I got obsessed with studying and getting high grades even more than I ever did.
I now am 1/80 in a top high school, but I am frustrated enormously. I find that I waste my time at high school, especially since I probably won't have as much time here as many other people do. I find the mathematics and physics boring and easy, and I feel like I'm wasting my time with certain classes which don't interest me at all (for example Latin). So I decided to study physics and mathematics outside of school. My school has been somewhat supportive, granting me a day per week off to do whatever I want, basically. I of course have a considerable amount of free time in addition to that day, since I ace almost every test without too much studying and without making my homework (not because I don't want to, but because I don't need to).
I decided to self-study because I decided that life is too short (and mine will be even shorter, if I reach 50 I'd be lucky) to waste time. So my plan is to do at least the first 2 years of undergraduate physics in the 2 years I've got left at my high school. My main objective is to gain a mathematical and physical understanding of quantum mechanics, as advanced as I possibly can.
I am currently studying Linear Algebra and Statistics, but I have a problem. I don't know what to study and, especially, in what order to study it. I have read literally read dozens of questions and answers as to what should be the mathematical/physical background for Quantum Mechanics (my future field of interest). But I find these to be too general, and I often am overwhelmed by it. In the same way you can get overwhelmed when you need to clean your house, but it’s so dirty that you don’t know where to start. So I would like your help.
My current mathematical background:
- Basic differential calculus and no integral calculus, we will get that later on this year, however, I think it’s best for me to study it myself before we get it at school since it is crucial in physics. To show my level of differential calculus, this is about the toughest homework question we had to solve algebraically: Given are the functions $f_p(x) = \dfrac{9\sqrt{x^2+p}}{x^2+2}$. The line $k$ with slope $2.5$ touches the function of $f_p$ at point $A$ with $x_A=-1$. Get the function of $k$ algebraically.
- Trigonometry and trigonometric functions. Again, as above, one of the toughest question we had to solve: Given are the functions $f(x)=-3+2cos(x)$ and $g(x)=cos(x-0.25\pi)-2$. Get the functions $s(x)=f(x)+g(x)$ and $v(x) = f(x)-g(x)$ in the form $y(x)=a+bcos(c(x-d))$.
- Analytic Geometry (conic sections, tangency, bisections, you know the drill).
- And of course everything below this level. I probably forgot some things, but you can ask my in the comments if I know certain fields. We will get a lot more mathematics in the coming years, but I want you to disregard that fact when answering that questions. I want to self-study as much as I can, and my mathematics teacher is very fond of me, so if I know a topic before we get it in class, he will let me do other mathematics that I want (he even said this). So I won’t lose time by self-studying subjects we’ll get eventually, so don’t worry about that.
My current physics background (names of the chapters we discussed):
- Newton’s laws, Mechanical energy/forces
- Pressure and Heath
- Signal processing
- Electric currents (Ohm’s law, Series and parallel circuits, etc.)
- Again, everything below this level too (again, I’m probably forgetting stuff). Here exactly the same thing counts as with mathematics, we will get a lot more physics in the coming year, but again, disregard that. My physics teacher adores me, even more so than my mathematics teacher, so again, he won’t mind if I do something else if I know the material he’s discussing already.
This is of higher level than American AP classes and British A-levels, keep that in mind.
Now my question is, what mathematics and physics do I need to study, and my importantly, in which order do I need to study it, in order to have a basic understanding of quantum mechanics in 2 years? I know basic is a very general term, but I think you people, as people who studied it themselves, know what is realistic and achievable. I know this might seem like a duplicate of hundreds of previous questions, but it isn’t. All the other people asking this question have gotten answers that I don’t find suitable for me. Mostly the answers are from people who assume that you have to ‘have a basic understanding of this, a basic understanding of that’, etc. But how do I know what ‘basic means’? Also, now that you guys know exactly what I know and what I don’t, you can more finely tune the answers into my personal situation. As I said, currently I am doing Linear Algebra and Statistics, so you can omit those 2 from your answers, and start from the point I finished those 2 (which will be around January).
- p.s. If you want to recommend certain books, be my guest. If it's a good book, than money is no issue, I've saved up enough money throughout the years

