I have sucessfully derived the Lorentz matrix for the boost in $x$ direction and its inverse. So I know how to get these two matrices:
$$ \Lambda = \begin{bmatrix} \gamma & 0 & 0 & -\beta \gamma\\ 0 & 1 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 1 & 0 \\ -\beta \gamma & 0 & 0 & \gamma \end{bmatrix} $$
$$ \Lambda^{-1} = \begin{bmatrix} \gamma & 0 & 0 & \beta \gamma\\ 0 & 1 & 0 & 0 \\ 0 & 0 & 1 & 0 \\ \beta \gamma & 0 & 0 & \gamma \end{bmatrix} $$
What I lack is a geometrical meaning of those two. I have read, that it is some sort of a rotation, so I have already drawn the Minkowski diagram for steady observer 1 and one for the moving observer 2 as observer 1 sees it. Examples are drawn for $\beta = 0.5$. I have noticed that:
- base cell is a square (picture 1) for a steady observer and a parallelogram (picture 2) for a moving observer
- light travels only diagonals of base cells
- axis $x'$ has coefficient $\beta$
- axis $ct'$ has coefficient $1/\beta$
question 1: Is there a way I can help myself with what I have figured out so far to show, how the Lorentz matrix deforms a square into a parallelogram and vice versa?
question 2: I have heard of the invariant quantity $\Delta s$ in relativity for which I have stumbled upon an equation $\Delta s^2 = \Delta x^2 - c \Delta t^2$. Is it possible $\Delta s$ is an area of a base cell?
question 3: Why is it so necessary for a scalar product to be defined with a minus sign for Minkowski spacetime?
picture 1:

picture 2:

Thank you.